Do you ever feel that life is throwing everything but the kitchen sink at you, that no sooner have you dealt with one challenge another comes at you with great velocity? Ever wondered how to deal with the negative emotions which crowd in on you and make you feel like crap?
I wonder how many of you have times when you feel stressed and anxious that you don't measure up. Do you second guess yourself - putting yourself down or thinking that you can't measure up to the expectations of others - or the standards you set yourself? Often?
Who do you know who would like to like to feel great about themselves, to have the confidence to grab life by the throat and live fearlessly? Everything has to start with our own emotional and spiritual growth. Learning to love and appreciate who we are opens the gate to freedom and power.
Are you ready to live fearlessly? Or would you like some help to step into your power, to feel confident and live your life with true purpose? My mission is to help a million people develop a greater sense of self worth and confidence so they can achieve greater success and fulfilment by 2023
I do hope that 2019 has got off to a flying start!
Are you one of those who decided not to make any New Years Resolutions so you didn’t have the pressure of failing to keep them?
Did you decide over Christmas that 2019 was going to be the year when you created a great work – life balance?
What have you done to change things? Is it working?
The relationship we have with ourselves is based on a number of things, our genetic makeup and hormonal and chemical balance – (nature), how we are bought up – (nurture) and on our interpretation of all our experiences both positive and negative, throughout our lives.
Before we start to consider why it is important to focus on your perceptions lets clarify what I mean by perception. Through out our waking hours we take in millions of pieces of information. We take in information through all our senses. What we see, hear, feel, smell and taste.
You cannot change the past.
What you can do is make sure it doesn’t spoil your present and your future.
Pure love is very simple. You love the person for who they are – right now, whatever they are doing or not doing. In its simplest terms, you love them and give your love unconditionally.
Many of us believe that is what we do, yet, the reality is, we love them, but we want something in return, this is called horse trading. A classic example of this is how we give our attention to others.
One of the fundamental principles of modifying behaviour you don’t want is that you reward the behaviours you most want to encourage.
Yet many partners of workaholics work against this principle.